Monday, June 22, 2009

You'll never know until you ask...

Have you ever seen a really hot girl and wanted to go up her and talk with her?

Have you ever passed up a chance to meet a extremely hot chick, only to ounch yourself later on for not talking to her?

Here's the thing: You can't tell exactly how a woman will respond to you until you TALK TO HER.

If I were to ask you about your perfect lover, what types of atrributes and qualities would you describe to me? What types of things does this person do? Are they fit/active? Are they intelligent? Do they love their job? Are they passionate?

Here's the thing with that: That girl you that you noticed earlier but didn't walk over to and talk with, might have been that perfect girl you have in your mind( let's be honest, nobody is perfect, however, they might come extremely close to what you look for in a woman/man).

Never judge a book by it's cover; you have to open it to look inside and see if the content is what you're looking for.

If your truly looking for someone to spend time with and be inimate with and do all types of fun things together, then act like it. If you see someone approaching you and they seem like they might be your type, then look them right in the eye and SMILE. Notice how they respond.

It occurs to me that people tend to say they want one thing and then do another thing. For instance, I know many guys/girls that SAY thatt hey want to meet someone special, someone that they can be with in that...special way, HOWEVER, they rarely take the steps to meet that special someone. They pass people by one the street and don't JUMP ON THE OPPORTUNITY to meet them, and then later that night, they're mad at themselves for not talking to that person.

Has that ever happened to you or anyone you know...

There's something very... MAGICAL about eye contact, wouldn't you say? When two people lock eyes, something happens. There's a CONNECTION that's formed. I'm sure you can remember a time when you've locked with a person and felt a CONNECTION with this person, even though you didn't even know each other's names at the time.

The next time you see someone that you find attractive, walk over to them and say something. ANYTHING. It doesn't matter. Most people are naturally friendly, and when you talk to them, they'll open up and be friendly and talk with you.

Have you ever had a total stranger come up to you and start a conversation, and suddenly, you found yourself talking and laughing with this stanger, and maybe you started to feel comfortable with this person...

Life is funny thay way.

Don't wait for you true love to pick you up and sweep you away to some private island. Walk up to them and make the first move.

The worst that can happen: They aren'y friendly and you learn that they are the person for you. So now what?

You find sombody else.

Love is a numbers game. The odds will grow in your favor when you approach more and more people.

Go out and have fun:)

Amir

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