Is it better to...

These are eternal questions, meaning that years from now, when I'm dead and gone and this webpage is long forgotten, someone looking for something... will stumble on it and ask themselves these questions, and that part of themselves that knows everything will give them the right answer for them...


Is it better to tell someone how you really feel or is it better to tell them what they want to hear?

In order to answer that question you have to ask yourself THIS question:


"Do I CARE how this person feels about me?" OR " Will this person' perception of me impact my life in any major way?"

They are two very POWERFUL questions, and when you ask yourself them, the answers can quite literally change your life FOREVER.

Another related question, which may be more important than the previous two is this:

"Whose opinion matters to me the MOST?"

Again, the answers can have profound impact on your life as it is now. It may change for the better, or it may change for the worse. The important thing to realize here is just ASKing yourself these questions, even if it it's just mentally (internally), will provide you an ANSWER.

The thing about questions is...

We don't like to ask certain questions because we don't want to know the answer. We THINK we want to know, but upon knowing, we wish we didn't know what we know now.

Got that yet? If not, go back and reread the above. It's very important to understand what i'm saying.

Have you ever asked a question and DEMANDED to know the answer, only to wish you never knew it after you asked it?

Why is that we do that?

What do you do with the answer once you ask the question?

Like Jack Nicholson said: " You can't handle the truth!!!"

Let's update that a bit, shall we?

"Don't ask the question if your not READY to handle the truth."

I like that much better, don't you?

Now...

What questions are you wanting answers to? Are you ready to handle the truth? Are you absolutely CERTAIN? What would have to happen for you to become ready to handle the answers you get? How will your life change when you have your answers?

Questions, Questions, Questions...

Curiouser and Curiouser...

NOW...

Back to the original reason for this post:

Is it better to tell someone how you REALLY feel, or it better to them what you THINK will make them feel better?

As I said before, these are ETERNAL, TIMELESS, EVERLASTING questions, so when I'm long gone and experiencing UNIMAGINABLE pleasures to Thongita heaven, people can still come here and answer these question for themselves.


Can you imagine having the answer to every question that you have YET to ask yourself? How good what that make you feel?

Can you find the strength in yourself to handle the truth?

Can you ask yourself those questions that people are afraid to find out the answers to?

Have you ever heard the saying: " The only stupid question is the one that you don't ask..."

WHAT IF...

The universe has a reward in store for the person whose brave enough to ask those questions that know one else wants too answer...


Good night:)